I thought I won’t be making any pre-post valentine note but here I am, writing a note around 2:56am on February 15, 2011.
I would like to share that this year’s Heart’s Day passed by not having a thought of myself being single. Not having a thought that today is a very special day. Not wondering who should I spend this day with, not jealous of the people who finds time to celebrate this day and jealous of the girl or girls spending their days having someone holding their hands and having dinner or lunch in a very fine dine resto and thinking of just themselves.
Today is not my normal Vday. Vday means Vitter day. Hahaha. I feel free and I feel happy. Today, I spend the day just with my newly found friends just laughing my heart out, laughing at Bob Ongs love quotes realizing that it may sound funny but it makes a lot of sense, checking each and every friends status checking if their happy, bitter, alone, single, emo and just the normal crazy status.
I learned one thing, it is really best to be single. You can be careless, reserve, emo, bitter, happy, crazy and of course free from commitment! Committing yourself from being hurt to be happy. Who says you need to cry like a river before you feel happy?! Who??
We can be happy in many ways. A simple laughing out loud with friends, eating together, watching movie, shopping, travelling sa mall? =)) what else??
God give us this gift of waking u in the morning to enjoy life. We may encounter hurts, troubles, problems, heartbreaks, success, happiness.. those gives our life spice and challenge in making us a better person. Who knows, He is just preparing us to be better for someone. ;)
From a saying: "If it is not a happy ending, it is perhaps a happy beginning."
